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My Waycool Big Brother

18 Sunday May 2025

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May 12, 2025:

Tomorrow is my big brother Bruce’s birthday. He has many distinctions and we have more than a few similarities.

Distinctions:

1. He was the only one of the four Gregory kids to inherit Mom’s brown hair and eyes. His middle name is “Keefe,” Mom’s maiden name, and traceable back to her ancestors in County Wicklow, on the Irish Sea. The first photo shows him with our beautiful Mom.

2. Family legend has it that he was so reluctant to start school at Margaret Harloe Elementary that he climbed the school flagpole and hung there awhile. They were sensible. He got hungry.

Bruce, front row to the left of the chalkboard.

3. We both later attended Branch, but because he was four years older, he got to hear aged, aged Fred Jones speak about the 1886 double lynching from the PCRR trestle at the base of Crown Hill. Fred saw it happen.

4. His AG(U)HS teachers adored him. Room 301 (I taught in 306) had glass soundproof booths for Sara Steigerwalt’s speech class (we both loved Sara, who was scary). Six years after he’d explained the Battle of Gettysburg to his classmates, his battlefield map of July 2 was still in one of those booths.

Our other scary/much adored teacher was English and Journalism teacher Carol Hirons. I was teaching at AGHS the year of Carol’s retirement, and on her last day, she walked up to me with an 11th Grade American Lit anthology that I recognized immediately.

She had tears in her eyes. “Jim, I wanted you to have this.” I got tears in my eyes as Carol walked away toward the parking lot, and then I opened the book. 

It was Bruce’s.

5. Learning to drive a stick eluded me, until Bruce taught me on his little MG sedan. I hope we didn’t run over too many of Mr. Shannon’s Brussels Sprouts.

The MG


6. He is gifted mechanically. I have a hard time clearing out the vacuum cleaner of debris. His airplane and car and ship models were meticulous. Mine looked like the mashed potatoes in “Close Encounters of the Third Kind.” Bruce was a finish carpenter.

Bruce made this Revell model of the Confederate commerce raider, Alabama, but his was under full sail. It was marvelous. I got a little bit even many years later when, at Mission Prep, I taught Travis Semmes, a direct descendant of Alabama’s captain, Raphel Semmes.


7, He is meticulous. We had a drawer full of “Mad” magazines, his, and they were arranged in some fashion I did not understand–either by date, theme or the redness of Alfred E. Neuman’s hair.

It never failed. “Been in my ‘Mads’ again, haven’t you?”

He was a pain in the ass until he turned nineteen. He took great joy in picking on me.


More on this at the end.


Similarities:


1. It is almost impossible to tell us apart on the telephone.


2. We are both TV Boomer Generation types. Here are Roberta, Bruce and I watching the TV when we lived on Sunset Drive. Yes, that is a TV.

3. We are both Branch School products, including several grades spent in the 1888 schoolhouse that still stands in the Upper Arroyo Grande Valley. (Photo above, although we lacked the belltower. Termites.)


4. Bruce was the emcee for the 1966 Senior Class play at AGUHS. I was the emcee for the 1970 AGHS Senior Class play.


5. We both enjoyed setting up toy soldiers and them utterly destroying them with industrial-strength rubber bands that our Dad brought home from the Madonna Construction Co. offices, where he was comptroller.

6, Both of us took our first airplane ride, to Marysville, where Dad was bidding a job, in Madonna Construction’s Aerocommander, piloted by Earl Thomson, one of the founders, in 1939, of today’s airport. In the photo, that’s Madonna and the first Gov. Brown in front of that airplane. (That trip led to me writing a book about local World War II combat fliers sixty-two years later.)

Bruce was later a busboy at the Madonna Inn, where I took Jeri Tomson, my 1969 AGHS Christmas Formal date, for two prime rib dinners which set me back $13.84.

7. Bruce was the editor of the Cuesta College newspaper, “The Cuestonian.” Four years later, so was I.

When he turned nineteen, (I was ADHD and so a much BIGGER pain in the ass than he ever was), I’d become slightly less annoying, at fifteen. That’s when he turned into the best big brother anyone could hope for. 

Tomorrow he turns 77. I am 73. 

He’s still the best big brother anyone could hope for.

Four good dogs remembered

17 Saturday May 2025

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Four names, from 2007, when we had to have the back yard dug up (new pipe to attach to the city’s sewer line), Elizabeth left these names in the wet concrete of a new sidewalk. Thomas, of course, is my son, and he added his name. The other four are much-beloved doggies, all of them gone now, but loved to this day.

By way of introduction:

Nelson. My 40th birthday present, a wee Scots dog, a West Highland White Terrier. He was presented to me, thanks to my sisters, at our friends Ricky and Jane Monroe’s house in SLO. We’d had on on Huasna Road when I was in my teens–Winnie, a little girl, and I loved her. Nelson, handsome when groomed (the first photo) has a legacy in the Bruce family, my wife’s, (he loved another in-law, Rick Jackoway, Sally’s husband) because they’ve had at least three and maybe more Westies. My friend Linda Ortali loves them, too, as did her husband, Tunny. Nelson’s favorite toy was a bouncing basketball, even the ones that sometimes knocked him over when he caught them.

Prince was an amiable Welsh Corgi we got from the Harts, on Huasna Road (Bill Hart lived across from us in the Sixties and I later got to teach his children, wonderful and very bright young people, at AGHS.) There is a children’s book out there, called Dogzilla, about an immense Welsh Corgi that terrorizes a major American city. Prince was about that size. I am constantly amazed at how small all other Corgis are when compared to him.

We discovered, when walking him that he preferred walking behind us. That’s because Corgis are herding dogs, nipping at the heels of even cattle to keep them moving. They can leap onto a cow’s back to get her attention.

DNA is so amazing; Brigid, our Irish Setter, a pet but by breeding a bird dog, invariably picks up a doggie toy and holds it in her mouth, sitting at the front door when Elizabeth comes home from work.



Honey was acquired from an exclusive breeder, if by “breeder” you mean a family with a boxful of free puppies in the old K-Mart parking lot in Arroyo Grande. After I got over my scowl when Elizabeth brought her home, without warning, we decided she was a Shar-pei. We were in error. She kept growing and growing and GROWING and turned into a Lab/Pit Bull mix. Her name fit both her color and her personality, although she ate our seatbelts and tried to eat the massive oak tree in our back yard. She left marks in the trunk that would make you think that one of our pets was a grizzly bear. Like a grizzly, Honey had a massive, beautiful head. I imagined that she had several rows of teeth, like a Great White Shark.

She was also graceful, powerful athlete. Elizabeth was taking her for a run behind AGHS one day and lost Honey for a moment. Then Elizabeth heard coyotes yipping. Then she saw Honey at full speed, like a Thoroughbred at Santa Anita, sprinting back to Mom. Elizabeth was happy she was safe–Honey dived into the family car–but gobsmacked at Honey’s run from the coyotes. We don’t take our animals up there anymore.

Mollie was my problem, because she was the only dog I’ve ever bought at a pet store. So this time I ambushed my wife. Elizabeth’s dearest dog when she was a teen was an Irish Setter, so I must argue that Fate, with me finding this one (probably from a puppy mill in Arkansas or Missouri, probably the runt of her litter), the first Setter I’d ever had in my family. They are very funny, exuberant most of the time and so seldom sad and, of course, they are beautiful. The only time Mollie ever made me sad was the day we had to put her down and her head fell, heavy, into my hands. (It was a sad moment, but it was also powerful. See below.)

Mollie was also a kleptomaniac. Our neighbor across the street had a dog, and if she left the front door open, Mollie would sprint across the street, sneak inside, and come trotting back with the doggie toy she’d swiped in her mouth. She was enormously satisfied. As you can see, she loved Christmas presents, too.

The names in the sidewalk represent such grand companions and such good friends. And so, I believe, they will be again someday. They’ll all of them be waiting at the door.





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