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How has history influenced my life?

10 Thursday Oct 2024

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This is a first draft–most of it borrowed from other writing of mine–of remarks I’m to give for the History Center of San Luis Obispo on October 19 at the beautiful octagonal barn just south of town.

I began my formal education in a two-room schoolhouse in the Upper Arroyo Grande Valley that had been built in 1888. Some of our desks still had inkwells. A two-cubicle outhouse was our restroom. One day a mountain lion came down from the hill above the schoolhouse and sniffed around our baseball field.

Just over the hill was a little family cemetery that contained the graves of the Branch family, rancheros and founders of Arroyo Grande. Mr. Branch, who died in 1874, is buried beside three daughters, all taken by smallpox in the summer of 1862. And nearby are the graves of a father and son, suspected killers, lynched from a railroad trestle over the creek in 1886.

I had no choice but to become a history teacher. Later, I had the chance to write books about the history—local history—that I love so much.

Me, teaching, I guess, at Mission Prep. It’s probably Civil War-era, either Whitman’s poem “Crossing Brooklyn Ferry” or Little Round Top on July 2 at Gettysburg.

The lynch mob’s victims, a father and his fifteen-year-old son, led to a book about San Luis Obispo County outlaws.

Finding a Marine’s tombstone—he grew up in Corbett Canyon and died on Iwo Jima three days short of his twenty-first birthday—led to a book about World War II.



My father was Madonna Construction’s comptroller. He took my brother Bruce and me on  an airplane with him once—I was six—while he bid a job in Marysville. The plane was Madonna’s twin-engined Aerocommander; the pilot was Earl Thomson, co- founder of the county airport. I was enthralled by that trip. Sixty years later, it led to a book about Central Coast aviators in World War II.

Alex Madonna, Gov. “Pat” Brown, and the Aerocommander.


My father liked to tell family stories. Dad and Dan Krieger were the best storytellers I have ever known, and that is how I taught history for thirty years.

My name, James Douglass, is from Dad’s family. James comes from my great-great grandfather, an undistinguished Confederate brigadier general. Douglass comes from his son, a young staff officer who had an unfortunate encounter with a Union artillery shell in Arkansas in 1862.  Dad’s stories about his family, influding these two, would lead to my writing a book about the Civil War and the sixty veterans buried in Arroyo Grande’s cemetery. To my distinct pleasure, they are all Yankees.

I do not want to cause a political ruckus here, but I am a Lincoln man.


Gen. James H. McBride, for whom I am named.


History can touch us in what seem to be the most casual of ways.

Last week I  spent a large sum of cash at the Arroyo Grande Meat Co. on Branch Street, and it was money well spent: Five grass-fed Spencer steaks for my son John’s birthday.

While I waited for the steaks to be wrapped, I remembered that

–This has been a meat market since 1897.

–It, and the storefronts alongside it, were built with brick quarried from Tally Ho Creek clay.

–The brick was fired in a lot owned by Pete Olohan, Saloonist Extraordinaire, and the building named for him includes today’s Klondike Pizza.

–Two of the early meat market partners were E.C. Loomis, he of the feed store, now empty, at the base of Crown Hill, and Mathias Swall, who also built the bank that is now Lightning Joe’s.

–Mr. and Mrs. Swall lived in the home that is now the Murphy Law Firm on Branch Street. They both loved music and played instruments and resolved to teach their children to play instruments, as well. There were twelve little Swalls. Noisiest house in town.

–E.C. Loomis’s sons, including Vard, a onetime Stanford pitcher who coached a local Nisei team, safeguarded the farms and farm equipment of their Japanese American customers during internment, among many local families who did so out of simple admiration for their neighbors, their values and for their devotion to the little town they shared.

–That is how Vard Ikeda got his name, and those families’ friendship is in part why two generations of Ikedas have been so incredibly important to local youth sports.

–Shortly before they were “evacuated” to internment camps in 1942, Japanese farmers came into the meat market to settle their bills. Paul Wilkinson, then the owner, refused to take their money. These were his friends.

“You keep it,” he told them. “You’re going to need it.”

After the war, they paid Mr. Wilkinson back. In full.


I grew up with schoolmates whose grandparents came from Kyushu, the southernmost Japanese home island. Some of my friends’ families came from the Azores and some from Luzon, in the Philippines.

When I was a little boy, the whistling of braceros—baroque and beautiful—woke me up summer mornings as they went down to the fields next to us for work.

I learned my first Spanish from them. Years later, one of my university Spanish professors took me aside to offer me one of the greatest compliments of my life::

“Mr. Gregory, you have a distinct Mexican accent.”

My first sushi was on a special Japanese holiday—I think it was Labor Day—at Ben Dohi’s house. Ben was married to a Yamaguchi sister, and Dr. Jim Yamaguchi came down with his wife and baby girl from the Bay area to visit. I got to hold Jim Yamaguchi’s daughter. Her name was Kristi. She would grow up to be an Olympic gold medalist. I did not drop her.

Kristi Yamaguchi, 1992 Winter Olympics




Mary Gularte took pity on me one cold morning when the schoolbus was late. She took me inside her kitchen and kept an eye out for the bus while setting a dish of sopa—Portuguese stew—on the kitchen table in front of me. I inhaled it. I did not have to eat the rest of the day.

My friends included families with surnames like Pasion and Domingo and sometimes they’d bring back sugarcane from the Philippines and gift me with a stalk to gnaw on. It was wonderful, but I later discovered lumpias, the divine Filipino egg roll, at the Arroyo Grande Harvest Festival. It gave me the greatest pleasure to watch Filipino mothers, most of them, once upon a time, war brides, watch me as I took my first bite of lumpia. My reaction must have been transparent. They beamed.

These were the helping hands that built our county. They helped me in my growing up. These people filled me with their history, by which I mean our history, and they remind me that history is always around us, sometimes just beyond the reach of our understanding. I write about history because I owe the past so much. My writing is the least, and it’s the very least, that I can do for my friends, including those I never had the chance to meet.

My grandfather, Ozark Plateau farmer John Smith Gregory (1862-1933) died eighteen years before I was born. He was the sweetest waltzer in Texas County, Missouri; I wish he’d lived long enough to teach me how to dance.

Let us take a moment to celebrate Antonio Banderas…

02 Wednesday Oct 2024

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I was just working on a history presentation on local outlaws that included this song, Banderas singing, from the opening to Desperado. I admire the way he restores order.

And, of course, he opens Once Upon a Time in Mexico with a little guitar work…



Oh, no. Banderas does not stop there. “Oh, What a Circus!” from Evita, at the Royal Albert Hall.

And, of course, the man can dance, too. Damn him. A tango with Catherine Zapata.

I cannot think of an actress who stunned me more than Catherine Zeta-Jones in 1998’s Zorro. So let’s allow Banderas to dance with her, too. “That is the way they are dancing in Madrid these days.”



Just one more point. Any guy whose friends carry guitar cases that double as rocket launchers HAS to be my kind of guy.



Good Neighbors

23 Monday Sep 2024

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If you click on the link below the image, you can learn more about Arroyo Grande “good neighbors,” like Aron and Alexander, from our past.


https://drive.google.com/file/d/1it1Y5dZ0YV_WSEQloYosMKZdin_kwSF3/view?usp=sharing

A roomful of inspiration: Women pilots, Paso Robles, California

21 Saturday Sep 2024

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WASPs walk a flightline of AT-6 Texans, World War II

I was honored to speak to the Southwest Section of the 99s, the women pilots’ organization, at the Estrella Warbirds Museum, another favorite, last night. I have to admit that it was a thrill. For one, it was a packed house. For another, I was happy to see that the pilots were of all ages, from their early twenties to women who have been 99s for over 40 years.

I talked about the history of local aviation, including women pilots, and then about the Women’s Airforce Service Pilots (WASPs).

Over 1,000 WASPs augmented the military flying force by ferrying combat airplanes from factory to field, test-flying repaired trainers, towing targets and other tasks. Thirty-eight died for their country, but since they were technically “civilian contractors,” the Army refused to pay for their funeral expenses. They were summarily fired in December 1944.

It took thirty-two years for Congress to finally recognize them for what they really were: Military veterans of World War II.

In talking about these incredible women last night, I’ve rarely had a livelier audience. They cheered when the name of Elizabeth Dinan, a legendary local pilot and flight instructor, appeared, and when the image of Blue Angel Amanda Miller appeared. (Elizabeth’s P-40 Warhawk earrings endeared her to me, immediately.) They liked this slide, and they laughed, a little ruefully, at its message. (The cadets in training did not share their commanders’ view. Many came to the WASPs for advice: “What should I do if my plane….?”)



The 99s were so much fun for me. Afterward, folks came up to me to talks awhile. A man suggested I research “Lucky” Penny, the Air Force fighter pilot who was ordered to scramble, unarmed, on 9/11. She decided that if it came to that, she would ram one of the hijacked jets. I met another local woman, now retired, who became a DC-10 pilot. I was so thrilled that I almost started hopping up and down, like I did the time the B-17 “Sentimental Journey” passed over AGHS and interrupted me, happily, in the middle of a lecture on the Thirty Years War. I ran outside my classroom and began hopping up and down—“A B-17! A B-17!”— with my students staring at me. They looked a little worried.


What the 99s did was validate the interest I discovered in teaching women’s history as part of the AP Euro course at AGHS. It’s part of a larger topic, social history that, along with military history, is important to me.

Thank you, San Luis Obispo 99s, for your invitation to speak.




David Lean and Oliver Twist (1948)

16 Monday Sep 2024

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Lean and Peter O’Toole, Lawrence of Arabia

I’ve always thought of the director David Lean in terms of vastness and Technicolor. The desert scenes in Lawrence of Arabia come to mind—it’s said that thirsty theater patrons mobbed the concession stand for Cokes at the intermission. The most epic entrance in film history, I think—when Omar Sharif kills the Bedouin stealing water from his well—is an example of vastness.

And in Dr. Zhivago—theater patrons were warned to wear sweaters because that film’s cold was so vivid—there’s a set piece, where Lean communicates “cold” as Sharif’s Zhivago and Lara seek refuge from the Revolution in his family’s dacha, far, far away from Moscow or what was no Petrograd. It’s stunning and Dickensian scene, like Miss Haversham’s cobwebbed parlor and wedding cake in Great Expectations.


Dickens’ novels had as their fattest pages richly-depicted English eccentrics, from the delightful Micawber to the lizard-like Uriah Heep to the tragic Sidney Carton. In Bridge on the River Kwai, the Allied POW’s are led by Alec Guinness, who has crossed the line that divides eccentricity from madness. (The film also features one of William Holden’s finest performances.) Alert moviegoers might have spotted something off at the film’s beginning, when Guinness’s Col. Nicolson marches him POW’s into camp while whistling “The Colonel Bogey March.” It’s a little mad.




But long before Lean made grand color films–Ryan’s Daughter, while not among his great films, still made evocative use of the Ring of Kerry, a landscape far different from that of the Arabian desert.


I realized that Lean’s earlier work, in black and white, is just as stunning. I’d long ago seen Great Expectations, with John Mills and Guinness, but I hadn’t seen Oliver Twist in a long time. It’s a film that makes you feels as if you’re inside a Dickens novel (Turner Classic Movies noted that the film’s dialogue was lifted almost verbatim from the novel.

Oliver asks for more. Illustration by George Cruikshank.

What struck me in yesterday’s viewing was the pathos of Oliver’s mother as she trudges exhausted, to the workhouse where she will give Oliver life and lose her own. Someone had the idea of setting the scene (the original, with its sound effects, is stunning) this one’s set to haunting music from an Australian World Music duo, Dead Can Dance. I don’t know if David Lean would approve. For what it’s worth, I do.





Why Arroyo Grande’s history may be far more important than we realize

04 Wednesday Sep 2024

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I don’t post this to be bragging.

Wait. Maybe I do.

But I post so much, espeically on Facebook, about history stuff that I hate the idea of me sounding like I am bragging.  My Irish-American mother had, as one of her central teachings, that there was no sin quite so terrible as the sin of Pride.

Here’s the deal, Mom. I am now seventy-two, and I have enough stories inside me for two lifetimes. Each story I write takes days of research. Each of the little books I’ve written represent a year of work.

If I don’t get the stories I have left out, they will be lost.

Mom died when I was seventeen, but, as I once told my high school students, she was alive in me every day I taught them. She was right there beside me. Her passion was social justice.

It was Dad’s voice alive in me in the stories I told the teens I loved to teach, at both at Mission Prep and then at my Alma Mater, AGHS, and there’s no better way to teach history than to tell stories.  My father was a mesmerizing storyteller. He was right there beside me, too.

Me, being emphatic, as usual, Mission Prep.

So the little stories I post on Facebook—and the marvelous, evocative stories told by my friend Michael Shannon, who grew up near us in the Upper Arroyo Grande Valley–are begging to come out. Michael’s stories a lyrical and vivid and, given his four generations in Arroyo Grande, they have roots that make them even more authentic and timeless.

As soon as Michael and I think of one story, another one surfaces. I was asked recently to give five or six examples of acts of kindness, selflessness or sacrifice from Arroyo Grandeans from our past.

I wrote twelve.

Seven more are waiting to be written.

Michael could double those.

Both of  us are in our seventies. Neither of us, I think, writes to show ourselves off. We write, instead, to show off people from our hometown’s past whose lives were marked by grace, or generosity, by sacrifice or by courage.

Most of all, Michael and I are drawn to stories about people whose lives were marked by kindness.

These people are our heroes.


I’ve written, too, about our town’s failures–the mob that descended on Chinatown in 1886 and forced the residents to flee, the double lynching a few weeks later, the ugly bigotry directed at Filipino immigrants, the few locals, motivated by envy directed toward the Japanese immigrants who’d become so successful, who applauded Executive Order 9066.

The fact remains that the heroes far, far outnumber the cowards from our past.

They have to be written about. They have to be remembered. In however many years I have left to me, I want to be part of remembering them.

Sgt. George Nakamura

Here is one of my favorite stories; I’ve told it many times before, but for some of you, this might be the first time.

AGUHS grad and Army Intelligence Officer George Nakamura, posing on the car (note the bald wartime tires) when he was studying his family’s Japanese in, of all places, Minnesota. Some of his instructors would’ve been intelligence officers, too. Many of them were women.

Nakamura was part of a team attached to–and meant to spy on–Mao Zedong’s guerrillas as they fought the Japanese in the mountains of Ya’Nan Province.

Nakamura disguised himself as a Chinese peasant to go behind Japanese lines to rescue a downed American flier. He was twenty years old.

When he turned twenty-one, the former sports editor of the AGUHS “Hi-Chatter” had so charmed his hosts that they threw him a birthday party. Somebody had a record player.

So the female fighters took turns dancing with the former editor of the AGUHS “Hi-Chatter.”

One of them was a famous prewar film actress, Jiang Qing.

She was the boss’s wife. The woman who danced with Nakamura would be far more famous by her married name: She was Madame Mao.

That’s a hell of a story. There are thousands more from this little town. There are so many stories; there is not nearly enough time.

Well, I’m proud to be a kid from Arroyo Grande/A place where even squares can have a ball…

02 Monday Sep 2024

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When my friend and fellow historian Shirley Bennett Gibson posted this a few days ago, I just couldn’t let go of it. I just had to write some lyrics. So here they are, inspired by Merle Haggard’s “Okie from Muskogee,” a monster hit in September 1969. Two caveats: I know that the first line is a bald-faced lie, and Haggard was one of our finest songsmiths. Admittedly, in September 1969, this one troubled me just a mite.

I’m Proud to be a Kid from Arroyo Grande

We don’t smoke marijuana in Arroyo Grande

We take our trips to SLO, not on LSD

We don’t want no pot farms in the Huasna

We like Rotta wine and just-grilled lingui-cee

Well, I’m proud to be a kid from Arroyo Grande

Where steelhead still make their way upstream

Y’all can keep you’re your flowers and your love beads

Me, I’m, rootin’ Fridays for our football team



We don’t allow short skirts on our co-eds

God forbid they come to school in jeans

And boy, you better trim up them sideburns

Or do hard time in the office of the dean

Well, I’m proud to be a kid from Arroyo Grande

We drive Ford pickups, not lovebugs, along Branch Street

We get our hair cut every two weeks at Buzz’s

We don’t want no longhairs or smelly feet

Our deputies wear handsome cowboys hats made out of straw

Their silver prowl cars leave blisters on the road

So if you’re considerin’ some teenaged nonsense

Get ready for the visit to your folks’ abode



Yes, I’m proud to be a kid from Arroyo Grande

A place where even squares can have a ball

‘Less you think I’m spinnin’ a kinda fairy tale

You ain’t danced and sipped sopa at the Portuguese Hall.



Now, here’s Merle. Of course.

Admission Day

01 Sunday Sep 2024

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School used to start a little before California Admission Day (that would be Sept. 9, 1850), when I was a little kid at Branch School, but now school lets out around June 8 and seems to resume, goodness sakes, about six weeks later.

The two-room 1888 Branch schoolhouse, before and after its restoration by the Andrews family. Today it’s white, carefully maintained by the Vangelos family.



But Admission Day is not such a great thing, other than the fact that California gold flushed Salmon Chase’s coffers–Lincoln’s Treasury Secretary, as in “Chase-Manhattan Bank,” who thought himself immensely superior to the president, as did his daughter, Kate, a Washington D.C. beauty. So our gold killed a lot of Confederates. At least one of my ancestors (Douglass, my middle name) among them.

Kate Chase




Which leads me to Peter Burnett–in the photograph at the top of this entry–a slave-owning Missouri transplant and our first governor. Burnett’s administration included a pledge to exterminate every Native American in the state.

He didn’t, but he made damn good progress. There were an estimated 20,000 ytt (Northern Chumash) people in California in 1500. By 1900, only 62 identified themselves as such.

In San Jose, the statistics are similar: There were 30,000 Muwekma Ohlone people before Burnett and sixty-two survived him.

Yes, the attrition is in part due to the influx of European/American diseases, like smallpox, measles and syphilis.

But Burnett actively recruited expeditions, some of them doubtless made up of amateur soldiers, lubricated with whiskey, to hunt down Native Californians and kill them.

The constitutional convention at Monterey in 1850 included the passage of a measure for the protection of California Native Americans. They were protected, in the act–and especially minors–by becoming indentured servants to the White folks who deserved California, after all.

The Census reveals that even in our county, Native American children are routinely identified as “servants.”

Our representative to the constitutional convention, young Henry Tefft, luckily left before that law was passed to take up a judgeship in San Luis Obispo County.

He later drowned in San Luis Bay when his ship’s little rowboat capsized.

Mrs. Tefft remarried.

For the YTT people of our county, there was almost no one left to marry. There were only bones, displaced for Chorro Street water mains or ground into fertilizer or dumped into mass graves at the southern edge of town or collected by amateur anthropologists.

Some YTT bones wound up in medical schools in England.

I once wanted, very earnestly, to write about Rosario Cooper of Lopez Canyon, the last speaker of her Chumash dialect and something of a celebrity in anthropology, in linguistics.

Lopez Canyon, about 1916. Rosario Cooper’s husband atop the steps, her son in the chair, second from right. Lower on the steps is anthropological linguist J.P. Harrington, on the right is Rosario.




My source, a YTT elder, refused to talk about Rosario. My ancestry, in Leicestershire and in County Wicklow, did me not one bit of good. It took me a long time, but I finally understood her refusal. Her people had been burned too many times by well-meaning White people, almost as dangerous in their way as Gov. Burnett was in his.

But you can still hear Cooper singing, her voice recorded on Edison wax cylinders in 1916, carefully preserved at Cal’s Bancroft Library.

I had the great honor of teaching two extraordinary young women AP European History at AGHS, both of them Cooper’s descendants.

But I didn’t teach them this history. I didn’t know it then. I didn’t want to know it when I finally learned it. It was too painful.

And I’m not so thrilled about Admission Day anymore. 

Yes, I smoked pot fifty years ago. There’s a little more to that story.

31 Saturday Aug 2024

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I don’t mean to shock anybody. Wait. Maybe I do. Maybe I don’t much care.

In the early 1970s, when I was editor of the Cuesta College newspaper, The Cuestonian–-a job I’d inherited from my big brother, Bruce (AGUHS ’66; me, AGHS ’70), among the many favorite human beings on that staff, and there are many, was a reporter named Mike Partain, who had a bushy bushy blonde hairdo, and his girlfriend, Cathy, who went to work every day on a 500 cc Honda.

Mike and Cathy loved me, for reasons that still elude me. What is uneludable is the fact that I loved them, too.

When The Cuestonian was put to bed, to be printed by the Blankeburgs, who were kind to us, we were exhausted. It was a good paper, from a little podunk community college housed in World War II barracks, and it won statewide awards for photography and writing and layout. So I would celebrate with Mike and Cathy, because we knew that newspaper we’d sent to the printer was good and we all knew that we’d worked hard to make it good.

So we would barbecue and drink wine—red, usually—which is exactly the same pattern I followed took many years later with the dearest friend of my life, Joe Loomis, who taught me many things including generosity, kindness, and Neil Young and Crazy Horse. There is no one on Planet Earth that I loved, and still love, quite so much as Joe. But we, too stayed up so late. There is no one who I feel the need to apologize to quite so much as Joe’s wife back then, Carol, when they lived on Mr. Boysen’s place (where I learned that garbanzo beans, the supply-and-demand agent that Mr. Avila used to make sense of macroeconomics to me at Cuesta, were like caviar to mule deer. Joe Loomis was an economics major in college. That fact amazed me. Fareed Zakaria was among the authors on his bookshelf in a little house in the Huasna Valley when he died suddenly of a heart attack. His intellect, and his appetite for learning—among the books he left behind were those written by Fareed Zakaria—were as as moving and joyful as a Vermonter’s first visit to a California In N Out Burger.

Mr. Boysen’s farm, where Joe and Carol lived, was beyond the “T” intersection of Foothill and Los Osos Valley Road, and I used to come over to visit. I’d like to think that it was all the time, but it was, maybe, only twice. A finned and oxidizing maroon Mercedes Benz graced the front yard. Someday, Joe was going to make it drivable again. I don’t know that he did, since there was wild mustard emerging from the engine block, but before we went inside, Joe and I regarded the Mercedes for a few moments. We admired its promise.

Four hours later, and I think of this with shame, we’d wake Carol and baby Gram up with our laughing. I owe Carol, a beautiful woman/human being/friend who makes beautiful art—I had an immense crush on her— forty years’ worth of apologies. We were incorrigible, Joe and I, though not nearly as much as Joe’s father John Loomis and his uncle, Gordon Bennett. But I kept Joe Loomis’s photo atop my teacher desk at Arroyo Grande High School thirty years after Mr. Boysen’s place.

Sometimes, in Room 306 at AGHS, I’d look down aet Joe’s face—that’s the face I saw, just below, and my heart would soften. His image made me a better teacher.



Years before that, at Mike and Cathy’s house, after many hours of ribs and red wine and pot and deep philosophical conversation (I liked to imagine that we were the heirs to Ed Ricketts, John Steinbeck and Joseph Campbell at Pacific Biological on Cannery Row in the 1930s), it was just about time for me to go home when I asked Mike to play two songs on his lovely Warehouse Sound turntable, with his lovely Pioneer amp and his tombstone-sized Harmen Karden speakers. So here they are.

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Devotion

31 Saturday Aug 2024

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Please forgive this reflection, but this is how I think, and this is how I taught history.

* * *

Pvt. Brown’s flags were threadbare–the American flag was gone–so I needed to take care of business.

On the way to his grave, in he IDES section of our cemetery, a big Dodge pickup was parked in the drive-path, the driver’s side door open. . Next to it was an older woman, a term, at seventy-two, that I use heedlessly, kneeling in front of a grave that was almost knee deep in flowers, surmounted by a happy pinwheel.

I don’t know why I say things like this, but I do.

“That is beautiful!” I told the lady.

She smiled and then her shoulders sagged. “My daughter. She’s been gone twenty-seven years.”

“I am so sorry.” The obligatory and stupid response. “I’m going to visit a Marine killed on Iwo Jima.” I had to repeat it. We’re both a little hard of hearing.

She put her hand over her mouth for a moment. “He died for his country.”

“Yes, he did, and he helped me to write a book about Arroyo Grande and World War II. He was the inspiration. I owe him so much.”

She liked that, I think, but we were still standing by her daughter’s grave, in the sun, and it was a little warm.

I don’t know why I do this, but I do. I had Private Brown’s flags in my left hand, so I reached out to her with my right. We held hands for a moment. I didn’t squeeze hers too tightly; she was wearing rings, one of them I am sure a wedding band.

“God bless you,” I said. I do know why I said this. Yes, I do. That’s the way my mother raised me.

After I’d tended to “my Marine”–he got fresh flags (needs new flowers), I ran my fingers over the smooth glass that covers the oval portrait on his tombstone, used the tombstone to get my my 72-year-old feet again, and gave its rough top a few pats with the palm of my hand. Then I began to walk back to my car.

The woman was still there, but this time, in the shade, thank goodness. She was kneeling at another grave, like her daughter’s, rich with flowers.

I didn’t bother her this time. I left her alone there, in the shade. She was by now standing but looking intently at the tombstone.

The past, Faulkner famously wrote, isn’t dead. It isn’t even past. I hope that the devotion the woman showed has been inherited by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I suspect that it has.

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