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Our last weekend

17 Friday Jan 2025

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Arizona’s Last Mooring, Friday, December 5, 1941, by Tom Freeman

This beautiful and poignant painting is by the late Tom Freeman. I’ve used it several times, since I write so much about World War II, including the two Arroyo Grande sailors lost when Arizona blew up on Sunday, December 7. 1941. I loved teaching United States History, and this ship is so evocative of one of the sharpest turning points in our past.

Monday’s turning point—the Inauguration—is so sharp that it could, metaphorically at least, break our necks.

This might well be our last weekend as a free people. We might have thought this so on December 8, when vast Japanese fleets and air armadas were rumored off San Francisco, when Germany, who declared war the next day, seemed so invincible. It took us nearly four years to make ourselves free again.

I wonder if we’ve lost the will to be free—it’s hard work, true— in 2025. Now we want to be the tough guys the Japanese thought themselves to be in 1941. They wanted a free hand in China. We want Greenland and the Canal and maybe even Canada. We are ambitious, aren’t we? And both the Japanese and the Germans, two nations in the grip of racism, wanted to punish anyone whom they considered their inferiors. Now we want to be the punishers.

My fears about us, today, were heightened by brief glimpses—about all I could take–of this week’s Senate confirmation hearings. They included an alcoholic misogynist who will preside over Defense, a Wall Street player who believes in the magic of tariffs—someone needs to explain the Great Depression to this man— and in the wisdom of tax cuts for the wealthiest Americans, a state attorney general, a 2020 election denier, who thinks Justice has been “weaponized,” and, today featured the DHS-Secretary designate, who dragged her hunting dog into a gravel pit and shot her dead.

What I saw was appalling. All of them were evasive when they weren’t being hyperbolic. All of them lied about the policies they would enforce or choose not to enforce, just as three Supreme Court nominees lied. All of them had kissed the generous rear (wisely, from the great distance that separates D.C. from Mar-a-Lago) of the man who’d nominated them. They were beholden to him, afraid of him. He was the audience they were playing to.

Of course, they were all Republicans. But these are all Republicans, too. From “Truth Social” Wednesday, as quoted by NPR:

“As of today, the incoming Trump Administration has hired over 1,000 people for The United States Government,” Trump’s post reads. “They are outstanding in every way, and you will see the fruits of their labor over the coming years. We will MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN, and it will happen very quickly!

“In order to save time, money, and effort, it would be helpful if you would not send, or recommend to us, people who worked with, or are endorsed by, Americans for No Prosperity (headed by Charles Koch), ‘Dumb as a Rock’ John Bolton, ‘Birdbrain’ Nikki Haley, Mike Pence, disloyal Warmongers Dick Cheney, and his Psycho daughter, Liz, Mitt Romney, Paul Ryan, General(?) Mark Milley, James Mattis, Mark Yesper, or any of the other people suffering from Trump Derangement Syndrome, more commonly known as TDS. Thank you for your attention to this matter!”and his Psycho daughter, Liz.

These people—not to mention scores of Democrats, are among the Enemy Within. The Democrats might find themselves in prison if Trump, the man Scots refer to as the “Cheetoh-Faced Shitgibbon”—can move fast enough before the midterms.

That’s what he wants to do, with his seventh-grade command of his emotions, his language, his nation’s history (he did not know who won World War I; a speech he gave on Gettysburg reads like seventh-grade crib notes) and of his curious middle school/Mean Girls definition of “treason,” the crime he asserts that was committed by Liz Cheney, Adam Schiff and Gen. Mark Milley.

The Americans who voted for the Shitgibbon, who will, of course, pay a terrible price, given his designs on Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security, on the prices they’ll pay, inflated by his tariffs, on the fecklessness of industrialists, enriched by the Trumpian tax cuts and freed to visit on their employees the kind of cruelty depicted by Upton Sinclair, even by Charles Dickens.

The testifiers remind me of the ghastly Edgar Allan Poe story, “Hop-Frog; Or, the Eight Chained Ourang-Outangs.” A despotic ruler throws a costume party. His high-born guests, like the president-elect’s oligarchs and nominees, think themselves so far above the common folk that they make fun of them. They are especially merciless toward the king’s court jester.

But it’s the court jester who proposes the costume party. All agree that it’s a splendid idea.

The jester also provides the costumes—the orangutan costumes—tight-fitting and doused in alcohol. Once the party’s underway, he sets his tormenters alight.


This is easily one of Poe’s most dismal stories, and as you may have noted, he is not one of our more cheerful writers. I don’t advocate this fate for the potential Cabinet officers who are testifying this week. But if they are someday consumed by fire, the agent that starts it will be, of course, hairspray.

Their boss, disappointed, will turn on them, as he has on nearly everyone else who has served him.

Or, if Justice and the FBI and his other Cabinet officers survive Trump, there is still a chance, a slight one, given recent history, of their jail time sometime after 2028.

As for the rest of us, I’m reminded of the late cartoonist/satirist Walt Kelly, who created a swamp inherited by a variety of creatures, including Pogo the Possum. Kelly was one of the few—others were CBS newsman Edward R. Murrow and The Crucible’s Arthur Miller—to finally come around and confront Sen. Joseph McCarthy and his communist witch hunts. This might be the wisest remark Pogo ever uttered.

It fits seventy years after the Army-McCarthy hearings that finally brought Joseph McCarthy down.

McCarthy’s chief counsel, of course, was Roy Cohn, one of President-elect Trump’s mentors.

The turning point came in a confrontation between United States Army counsel Joseph Welch and Sen. McCarthy. It was an indelible moment, captured live on television, then in its infancy.

I do not know if we can find another Joseph Welch. But, in just my family’s humble past, we found a sailor and a soldier who gave their lives for us, in December 1941 and January 1945, respectively. We have Irish immigrants who worked in Pennsylvania oilfields, homesteaded on the Minnesota prairie, grew oranges in Southern California. We have a woman—my paternal grandmother—who was one of the first delegates to a national political convention, in Madison Square Garden in 1924. We have a woman—my maternal grandmother—who grew up in a rough gold-mining town and learned to cook from Chinese immigrants. My paternal grandfather was so devoted to education on the Ozark Plateau that they dismissed classes in Texas County, Missouri, on the day of his funeral in 1933. My maternal grandfather was a cop in a tough oil-town, Taft, who once laid out three roughnecks, cold as tinned sardines, in an alleyway after they’d jumped him. He helped a lost little boy, terrified, find his way home. We have a railroad engineer who drove the Great Northern Empire Builder until the day he died at the controls. We have an Irish immigrant nun who devoted her life to orphans in the Albany orphanage that was once the home of Hamilton’s Schuyler sisters.


And, of course, we have my folks, in the photos just above, who taught me many things, including the deep love I have for my country, including and despite its faults. They made me, without knowing it, a history teacher.

There’s just the faintest chance that in this immense reach for power that begins Monday, Donald John Trump will soon find himself outnumbered by people of character. Nearly all of them, including my family members, are dead now. They are ghosts. Maybe Trump, if he’s lucky, will suffer a Dickensian fate, like Scrooge’s redemption.

Or maybe, finally, in the depth of his cruelty, Poe will catch up with him instead.

“My ancestors came here the RIGHT way.”

13 Monday Jan 2025

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A father and daughter, “illegals,” drowned in the Rio Grande, 2019.

If you know history—worse, if you teach it, which steers you into confrontations you don’t want—your tolerance for ignorance dissipates. This quote is a favorite of ignorant people.

Of course your ancestors came here the “right way,” especially if they came between 1880 and 1914. We had another ten years before we would subdue the first immigrants—the Lakota people—at Wounded Knee, and we still had a vast continent to fill once we’d accomplished the extermination, or near-exterminations, that we’d always glorified, from Puritan sermons to the the pronouncements of the first governor of California to breathless newspaper dispatches from the Black Hills, and its gold deposits, in the 1870s.

So your ancestors—Italians, Poles, Russian Jews, Bohemians. Irish and the largest immirant group, Germans–were needed to fill the empty space in this map. Their influence remains: In Texas, there are many little towns where “Texas German,” is the second language. Missouri River towns have names like Versailles, Vichy, Hermann. In my hometown, Arroyo Grande, Califronia, what is now Cherry Avenue was dense with Bohemian families.

We were starved for people. Unless, of course, to use a few examples, you were Chinese (denied with the Exclusion Act), Japanese (The “Gentleman’s Agreement”) or Filipino (citizens and then, on a Congressional whim, not citizens. Filipinas were not allowed to come to America.)

“Illegal Aliens” are driven by the same desires that motivated Italians, Russian Jews or the Irish: poverty, persecution, starvation. But not even the “coffin ships” that claimed so many Irish immigrants can compare to the agonizing deaths in our Desert Southwest today.

The great irony is that we are as starved for people now as we were in 1880. The vastness now is not calculated in land, but in the passing of Americans from my generation—the so-called” Boomers”—who, liked the migrants, leave nothing behind when they die: the American birth rate in 2023 was half that of 1957, in the midst of the Baby Boom. And the Boomers are retiring—or dying—so it’s we account who for the gap today, generational rather than geographical, that so closely resembles the emptiness between the Mississippi and the Pacific in 1880.

But these people are not welcomed, ostensibly because they came here the “wrong way.” They came here because death squads killed friends or family members, because climate change has reduced fields of corn to crisp rows resembling papyrus, because there are no jobs for young people in bifurcated economies marked by the vast divide between landowning elites and landless farmworkers.

What would you do in the same circumstances? Illuminate me.

That’s an old man’s hand

12 Sunday Jan 2025

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I don’t think there’s any recent event that’s had had such an emotional impact on me as the fires. They have reminded me, for one example, that I remember dinosaurs.

Remembering dinosaurs–in my case, the Shell Beach brontosauraus–for someone about to turn seventy-three, means that death doesn’t carry the freight it had when I was twenty-three, about when I saw the actor John Houseman in the film “Paper Chase.”

The fires reminded me that John Donne was right:

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;…

This is an old man’s hand. That’s not the centerpiece of this blog post, which is about hope and remembrance.


I have noticed, too, the kind of crepe-y skin that the actress Jane Seymour deplores is starting to appear on the undersides of my forearms, and on my borther Bruce’s. Shoot howdy, I rememer Seymour as Kate, the incredibly evil lover of Adam Trask in the miniseries East of Eden. She wone a Golden Globe, more power to her, becuase I despised her.

Her lover/husband, Adam Trask, was played by Timothy Bottoms. To show you how slyly the years have paaaed, Elizabeth and I enjoy immensely an AnimalPlanet show about Bottoms’s son, Buckeye, now a vet in Hawaii. He has all of the compassion that Kate lacked. And he adores his Pittie cross, who goes with him everywhere.

Buckeye’s Pop was the star in another generational film, The Paper Chase, about Harvard Law, whose pivot was the incredible actor/director John Houseman, imperiorus as Timothy Bottoms’s torts professor. (“Bottoms’s” is a peculiar construction, isn’t it?) And Bottoms ahd the great good luck to fall in lvoe with Lindsey Wagner, his torts professor’s daughter and later The Bionic Woman.

You would think, wouldn’t you? You would think that this blog will be filled with self–pity? You would be right, because I have a lot of that trait, in addition to the aging hands. I used to remember the names of the horses of virtually every general in the Civil War. Now I can’t rember the name of the actress in Alien. (It was Sigourney Weave.) I get my facts wrong far, far more tha I used to.(San Luis Obispo muscian Louie Ortega never played for Whale’s Knees, I was bluntly and correctly informed. I keep making my big siter a year olde than she really is. The declination of my night vision means that I get lost on Elm Street in Arroyo Grande, when I look anxiously for the big lights that illuminate the shopping center where I worked, at Kinney’s Shoes, fifty-five years ago.

And then there’s this.

This is part of my workout yesterday, and I’m proud of it, but it’s faint echo my twenties, I benched 200 lbs with reps–when I was a wee fellao— went shopping in SLO for polo shirts whose sleeves would stretch because my bicps strained them. I was a hunka hunk.

And I was a flaming asshole.

I will be seventy-three this month. Now it takes me a full minute to shift from my left to my right side in bed. (Someimes I have to shift Walter the Basset Hound first, which is roughly equivalnet to benching 200 lbs.) When I’m awake and more or less conscious, everything hurts. The distanc between me an dthe quarter I dropped on the kitchen floor seems just a bit farther than the distance between Oxnard and Arroyo Grande.

When I have to show my ID for groecery shopping, I like to joke that “I was around when dinosaurs roamed the Earth.” Which I was, if some of you remember the Shell Beach Brotosaurus.

No, just in case you were waiting for me to feel sorry for myself, here just a few things I rmember from my impossibly long time on this here Planet Earth. And the wrinkles on that old, old hand? They make me very happy. Even the cheesy ones, which remind me that the one thing—maybe the only thing— I’m not afraid of is dying. Not that I’m in a hurry, mind you.

I remeber the first video; I adore the second, and there’s nothing I loved teaching quite so much as the third.

So there. Death be not be proud. You don’t scare me. Not one damned bit.



Ciao bella! (Hello, beautiful!)

12 Sunday Jan 2025

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A young Italian woman; a prosciutto and fig pizza. When Elizabeth and I took students on the first trip to Italy—48 of our closest friends—we had a soda at sunset in Venice. They were hard to drink because our mouths were flopped open, in wonderment, at the way Italians come out just before dusk, dressed to the nines, and beyond. They were stunning—even the Italians close to our middle-aged years. Lots of leather, of course, oversized dark glasses, long-legged parade walks. They looked good and they knew it. They were enchanting.

What brought them to mind was the humble ravioli I made for dinner. It’s is not at the summit of the culinary arts, but it struck me that Italians food is just as beautiful as those Italians at twilight. And Italy itself. Here’s the ravioli, salad and the berry crisp that Elizabeth made, which is sublime (sweet and tart; crispy and fluid).

All of this made me miss Italy, which I’ve described many times as “My Happy Place.” It is so beautiful, as is its food, as are its people. I miss you, Italy.

I guess it was this film and its opening that made me fall in love with Italy a long time before I traveled there.



Wait. This one, Only You, which came out about the same time, helped, too.



This film came out later, and Cher is Armenian, not Italian, but she gets it. And, good sweet Lord, she is beautiful.

And as you drive up Italy, from Rome to Florence, there are vast fields of sunflowers, estate houses, guarded by cypress, that likewise stand watch over wheatfields, marble quarries cut in great oblong slices—Michelangelo swore that there was marble dust in his mother’s milk—and, every ten miles or so, Medieval towns perched atop the hills. In Umbria, one such hilltop is crowned by St. Francis’s church. Italy is almost impossible, But it isn’t.

Tuscany
Assisi
My chicken cacciatore

Random Thoughts from the Sports Desk, January 2025

06 Monday Jan 2025

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Ichiro Suzuki

1. Jimmy Garoppolo is starting for the Rams. This is madness.* When he was a Niner, Elizabeth and I spent a weekend in North Beach—wonderfully Italian—and passed a restaurant, on our way the City Lights Bookstore, that read JIMMY GAROPPOLO EATS HERE FREE!

*The Rammies just lost. Damn.

2. The Dodgers have signed a gifted South Korean middle infielder. Don’t tell me that actress Jeon Jong-seo (okay, and her yoga pants) who threw out the first pitch in an exhibition game in March, didn’t have something to do with that.


3. Yes, Ken Burns’s Baseball, repeating on the MLB channel, is just as good as it was when it first aired. When I taught U.S. History, I showed excerpts about the Negro Leagues every year when we studied the Harlem Renaissance, My kids were enthralled by Satchel Paige and Josh Gibson (and by Duke Ellington and Louis Armstrong, from Burns’s series on Jazz). And they loved my surrogate grandfather, Negro Leagues player/manager Buck O’Neil.



4. Although we, a 49ers family, love 49ers legend Jerry Rice, Tampa Bay wide receiver MIke Evans today equaled Rice’s record for 11 seasons in a row with 1,000 receiving yards. Evans is a good man, and a tough one. (We also have a soft spot for Tampa QB Baker Mayfield, once a Cleveland Brown, and the series of Progressive Life commercials he did with his wife when they both pretended to live in the stadium. They were charming.



5. In thinking about Asian baseball players, I leaned to move my eyes independently when Ichiro and Ken Griffey Jr. appeared together at Dodger Stadium. I am left-handed, so that eye never left Suzuki. He hit like Carew, loving the opposite field, but Ichiro hit with more power and, he played with the game, I think, with the same grace, if a bit edgier, that DiMaggio had.


But we saw a game at Camden Yards in Baltimore—such a beautiful ballpark– there are little bronze baseballs set into the wall to commemorate epic home runs. Griffey’s was about twenty feet above all the others.

6. Best of all, best of all, there’s this magazine cover. WOOT!

I love Australians

05 Sunday Jan 2025

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Lt. Gregory–or maybe he was still a corporal–with my sister, Roberta, 1943.

My father almost became a World War II casualty, but on a London bus. Two drunken GI’s where harassing a young British woman, who was visibly terrified. When Dad intervened, the two got out of their seats and got nose-to-nose with him.

My father, who weighed maybe 140 lbs after two Thanksgiving dinners, closed his eyes and prepared to die for his country. When a moment passed with no discernible personal destruction, he opened them again and the drunks were seated and staring intently out the window, as if bombed-out London was the most beautiful and arresting scene they’d ever encountered.

Dad turned around and there were four sunburned Aussie veterans standing behind him.

“Should you need anything else, Leftenant,” their sergeant smiled, “we’ll be right here.”

The popular orchestra leader Andre Rieu, from Holland, might be a little schmaltzy, but I love him anyway because where he goes, he pays tribute to the nation hosting his orchestra. In this case, Rieu’s emotions are heartfelt. Look at the tears in his eyes, and at the beautiful mother and daughter singing together. Chills.

Since Australia was once a penal colony, there are a lot of people whose ancestors came from Ireland. This song, by the late Dolores O’Riordan and The Cranberries, is a terrible evocation of The Troubles.

And here are Australians—some of them maybe Irish, others definitely Maori, paying tribute to O’Riordan’s song. Aussies may have saved my Dad’s life. Dolores Mary Eileen O’Riordan died in a London hotel in 2018. She still lives in Brisbane, in the voices of these Aussies.

My true identity

04 Saturday Jan 2025

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Guy Williams, as Disney’s Zorro (1957-1959) on his trusty horse, Tornado

Trying to renew my Driver’s License/California Permanent ID.

To do so, I need a copy of my birth certificate. Sure, that’s around here somewhere. Should be easy to find, since it’s heavy, carved in Cuneiform on a big rock.


Nope. Can’t find it.

I can get a copy from Kern County, though. $45.

It will get here a week after my license expires.

But it won’t get here at all unless I pay an extra $25 to get my true identity verified. (Secretly, my true identity is Don Diego de la Vega, aka “Zorro”). That okay. You can do that online, through a convenient online notary.

By the way, here’s an older Don Diego, about my age, played wonderfully by Anthony Hopkins.



Online Notaries ask a lot of questions—maybe it adds a little excitement to their dreary Bob Cratchity lives? Once they’re done being nosy, you submit a photo of your Driver’s License—mine’s the one that’s about to expire—front and back.

Okay.

To the photo submission page:

Take photo. Submit.

Failure.

Take photo. Submit.

Failure.

Take new photo. Submit.

Failure.

(I do this all the time when I make an online bank deposit, by the way, so I’m no newbie.)

Take new new photo. Submit.

Failure.

I submit heated a note to Mr./Ms. online notary. No cuss words, but it does include the adjective “absurd.”

Now I know why folks hate The Guvmint. Come to think of it, Zorro had a beef with the colonial Mexican guvmint of California, too.

Singing to self: Out of the night/When the full Moon is bright/Comes the horseman known as ‘Zorro’…

Happy Birthday, Mom: January 1, 1921

29 Sunday Dec 2024

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This was an introductory slide on local women’s history, a presentation I made to the Woman’s Club.

Since I never miss a chance to brag about my mother, and her birthday’s almost here, let me tell you why I love her still:

She taught me how to read.

When I realized, terrified, that I was going to die someday, she used seemingly dead tulip bulbs to teach me about new life.

She was gifted with flowers, including tulips, but most of all roses.

The same went with fabrics–weaving, knitting, needlepoint, crochet, and sewing (which she disliked, but we had an big black Singer in the living room on Huasna Road.) And a hand loom, far bigger.

When it didn’t sound quite so insulting as it does today, the first superintendent of Lucia Mar, Earl Denton, said that my mother “was the most brilliant woman he’d ever known.” (Her education ended at Taft Union High School in 1939.)

She loved music. We had everything from Disney records–“Tubby the Tuba” and “Little Toot the Tugboat” to Classical LPs and, her favorites and mine, the two Harry Belafonte Carnegie Hall concerts.

She was a marvelous cook. I will never, ever be able to replicate her chicken in white wine sauce, served either atop rice or toast points. I loved Fridays at Branch School because her tuna sandwiches were epic.

We all watched The Ed Sullivan Show on CBS on Sunday nights. Mom’s favorites were Ringo, Petula Clark and, most of all, Diana Ross and the Supremes. (For context, that means that Mom was Beyond Cool for 1965).


Earlier, when we lived on Sunset Drive, we all decided we wanted to be Bedouins. Mom provided burnooses, robes, makeup (Bruce and I had curly mustachioes) for the three kids. And for our Cocker Spaniel, Lady. She had a veil, too.

Her favorite mission was Santa Ines. Coincidentally, it became my Fourth Grade Branch School Mission Project. Many years later, Elizabeth and I would be married there.

She loved anyone who wasn’t quite like us. My college major was in Mexican history. That’s Mom’s doing.

She belived in integrity, in the brotherhood and sisterhood of all human beings, and in Jesus, to whom she held no exclusive rights. She was a devout Catholic who didn’t live long enought to convert.

She grew up in the Great Depression, so our can cupboard on Huasna Road was filled with food she’d never eat. Here she is in fourth grade in Taft. They’re cropped out in this version of the elementary-school photo, but her shoes are badly scuffed.

So what poverty taught her—including the Famine poverty of her Irish great- grandfathers, both name Patrick—had nothing to do with brilliance and everything to do with compassion. Her grandson, Thomas, shows the same quality with the little friend he made in Killarney on a student trip to Ireland.

And Jimmy Carter, a Baptist, who left us just today, showed the same kind of compassion that my mother taught and that her grandson inherited. Here he is, with Rosalyn, working on a Habitat for Humanity project in Memphis.

In 2010, I took AGHS students on another trip to Europe, on a battlefield tour, and one of our stops was at Verdun, the site of one of the most horrific battles, in 1916, of World War I. Here are some of my students atop Fort Douaumont, where 100,0000 French and German soldiers died.

Later, we toured the ossuary, where we could see the anonymous bones of unknown young men in stacks just below Plexicglas apretures.

“Are these your students?” a museum docent asked me. I gulped.

Yes, they are, I admitted.

“They are so respectful!” she said.

Maybe I had taught them that. But my mother had taught me. She was their teacher, too.

Mom and me, 1952.

Never underestimate the power of a kindness.

29 Sunday Dec 2024

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Diana Berguia, 1949-1985, AGHS 1967

I ran away from home when I was about thirteen. It didn’t last long. We lived by the Harris Bridge–that’s our house, the way it looks today.

So I went up into the hills, where I found cowpies, some fresh–damn!–and cow bones and skulls, which later made their way into a book I wrote, about the drought of 1862-64 that decimated Francis Branch’s cattle. In modern dollars, it cost the founder of Arroyo Grande $8 million, and the drought arrived the same year he lost three little girls, now buried next to him, to smallpox.


My situation wasn’t quite that dire. I was angry with my Mom and, given to grand gestures, running away from home seemed appropriate.

My runaway covered most of this map.


That lasted about twenty minutes. The idea wore itself out. My stubbornness didn’t. For those of you keeping score at home, I did a big loop. I turned left behind the IDES Hall, went behind Old Arroyo (We did NOT call it “The Village,” a term I consider insulting, unless you’re a Smurf), went up Cherry and then onto Branch Mill Road, grudgingly headed toward home.

It was a long hike, especially for someone, like me, who was vertically challenged. I was always the shortest in the photo, and here’s proof, the year before I ran away from home, when I’d won a writing award for the American Legion’s Women’s Auxiliary. I believe the topic was “Lordy, How I Hate Communism.” I could be wrong, but not by much.


Me, front center, with my hair neatly slicked down by Avon Hair Trainer, courtesy of our Avon Lady, Mary Lou Fink, whom we loved. To my immediate right is Josephine Thwaites, AGHS ’71. Her Mom, many years later, took our wedding photos.


I walked up Branch Mill and was getting close to Tar Springs Creek when a 1958 Chevy station wagon stopped.

Behind the wheel was Diana Berguia. Her passengers were, I think, her sisters—Angie, Connie (my contemporary and my friend back to first grade at Branch School, and later my teaching colleague at AGHS) and Emily.

“Do you need a lift?”

My feet hurt.

I bashfully accepted. Diana was immensely older and more classy than I—she must have just gotten her driver’s license, which only validated this estimated. And she was beautiful, with long straight black hair, and I think I remember a soft and almost musical voice. Her family farmed far up Huasna Road, past the haunted house where little Alice had been murdered, up toward the Coehlos but not quite as far as the big tree where the fog stopped and not quite as far as the Tar Springs Ranch or the Porter Ranch beyond where, in my imagination, bounded as it was by the Upper Arroyo Grande Valley, you reached the ends of the Earth and fell off. I later learned about Pozo.

Geography aside, my feet hurt, and I was being picked up by a station wagon full of girls. Accepting Diana’s offer was the first good decision I’d made all day.

I have a damnable habit of getting rescued by friends—Joe Loomis is another example of this, if you’ve heard that story (if you haven’t, look up “Redheads” on this blog)—and I think Diana sensed that I was upset. And she was worried. I was short enough to be run over by a celery truck, with me unseen, so the Berguias got me home safely.

Years and years and years later, I was interviewing Jeanne Wilkinson Frederick, whose father owned the Arroyo Grande Meat Market. I’ve written about her, too, because her dad was so kind to his Japanese customers—his friends—that they sent Jeanne this beautiful doll from the Rivers Internment Camp in the Arizona desert. Jeanne, at 93, still had it.

Jeanne Wilkinson as an AGUHS student, about 1944, and the doll .

She also still had her father’s ledgers. It was customary for grocers and butchers to allow the farm customers to run a tab, to be paid off when the harvest came in. When I opened the ledger, the entries were for Diana’s father, Victorino, born in 1909 in the Philippines.

The memory of the day I ran away from home came back to me just then, along with the realization of the luck I’d had in growing up with Victorino’s children. An AI description of his birthplace:

Barotac Nueva, Iloilo, is known for its friendly people and is a great destination for travelers who want to experience the local culture. Some say that the people of Barotac Nuevo are among the most hospitable in [the Philippines].

Of course that must be true. It is now sixty years since Diana pulled over to ask if I needed a ride. It remains one of the most vivid, and one of the warmest, memories of my life.

The Berguias were, are, and always will be one of our finest families.


Special thanks to Shannon Ratliff Evans, whose faithful Facebook record, “Arroyo Grande High School’s Fallen Angels,” is a constant reminded to me of how lucky I’ve been to have grown up in Arroyo Grande.

Jimmy’s 2024

25 Wednesday Dec 2024

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It was not an easy year: We lost Mollie and Mittens, the beautiful Tuxedo cat. But here’s some stuff I’ve created this year because I have, yup, a big mouth.


And so, 2024, here we go:

December 31:

January:

February.



February.

March.

May:

June:

July: From a presentation for the South County Historical Society.

September: Remarks before the San Luis Obispo County Board of Supervisors for “Good Neighbors” week.

October: For the 99s, the women’s pilots organization, from a presentation at the Estrellla Warbirds Museum in Paso Robles.

October: From a presentation to the Cayucos Historical Society:



And maybe I should add just a few blog posts, too? Okay.

I can’t believe I did this. December:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/12/10/how-to-take-teenagers-to-europe/

When my mother died, I read. November:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/11/15/when-my-mother-died-i-read/

Remarks to the History Center of San Luis Obispo County, October:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/10/10/how-has-history-influenced-my-life/

Good Neighbors, Arroyo Grande, September:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/09/23/good-neighbors/

Devotion. August:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/08/31/devotion-2/

My New Hero, July:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/07/31/my-new-hero-the-muffin-man/

Oba! July:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/07/20/oba-oba-oba-i-love-this-song-from-brazil/

The song “Wayfaring Stranger, May:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/05/25/wayfaring-stranger/

The Rising, Ireland, 1916. April:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/04/23/april-24-1916/

This Beautiful Song, March:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/03/21/this-beautiful-song/

Just a girl, February:

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/02/26/just-a-girl/

Our “Masters of the Air,” January

https://jimgregory52.wordpress.com/2024/01/27/masters-of-the-air-2024/



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